ok guys sorry to do this to ya but here it goes, im just a lil frustrated with alot of people right now that have yet to respond to the invites my fiance sent out, one of them being my so called best friend im gonna give you a lil history on our friendship, we have been friends for some 20 yrs now since grade school, i practically live at his house in the summer, we would do everythig together, most of the time we would leave his house and be gone as 13 yrs old all weekend leaving with only our fishing poles, pocket knives, some salt and a few other items and survive all weekend, we basicaly knew what the other was gonna do before it was done, not just friends but more like brothers, but not a brother your where stuck with one you chose. he and i have had to deal with some nasty life stuff, passing of alot of family and i thought we grew closer. as time has gone by we never talk, i seen him and his family last christmas, that was the last time we spoke, when im around he acts like nothing is wrong and its like old times, im not sure if its his wife that i have done something to, or what i guess what im getting at when do you drop the best freind status? im not realy willing to toss away a 20 yr friendship, but i have a feeling that it will not be good the next time i see him, so where this started at is i have yet to hear if he is gonna be at my wedding,feel if i call it will surely be a no, his mother rsvp'd 3 days after it was sent, sorry for the rant just had to get it out... i need a beer :?